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Posts Tagged ‘live’
ok, how exactly do i live my own life?
01
May
All my life I’ve basically listened to my parents tell me what to do. Yes, i know very foolish because now i am getting depressed about my life, feel like i have been wasting it.
I love art. I automatically draw. it just flows out of my hands. animation drawings surround my college papers. doodles so to say. but good doodles.
Now, my parents have been discouraging it since i was in elementary school. When i told them i would like to draw, they said but how will you make money? Art is a hobby, not a career.
However, people that I talk to are always wondering why I don’t do something in art.
My life so far: I am a junior in college, studing french and maybe minoring in international studies. why? i find it easy but now i don’t even know what to do with my life with that major and minor.
i feel really dissapointed in myself. like we hear about people who just go for it. they trust themselves and their talents and just do it. I however am a big chicken. and i constantly listen to my family. we are very close and they are wonderful, very hard working people. they are not mean. they just want the best for me.
but now i am thinking about ME. guys, what do i do now? how do i just live my life? sorry if this is a really stupid question but i just don’t know how. i do live on campus and have a social life but i know my family would be shocked/horrified if i told them i’d go for…art. see, i was always the excellent student in high school so a lot is expected. my relatives still have hope i’ll go to law school or something….
HELP
but i’m scared!!!
and what about a degree, if i chose to go the art path………
or could i just show employers a portfolio of my drawings??
I am looking for a Pacifica Potter wheel. I live South of New Mexico.?
25
Apr
I’ve been throwing pottery for two years and I feel that it is something I want to do for many years, and why not, to make a living out of this. I am looking for a used “Pacifica” potter wheel medium size. I just need something to perform my hobby at home and keep enjoying my retirement. Thanks
My boyfriend is on my case all the time. What do I do? Its as though I can’t live up to his standards. HELP!
24
Apr
I really am stuck trying to figure this out. He’s a great guy – we share the same obscure hobbies (like roleplaying, and board games,) we have the same sense of humor but we also have very stark differences. He is a very direct person who continually complains about my lack of “courtesy” to people – despite the fact that I’ve been involved in politics my entire life and know how to act courteous.
I have tried to be more thoughtful towards others and have really made an attempt. It doesn’t seem to matter though. Every night before we go to sleep, he incites an argument with me about how bad I was that day and how I wasn’t polite to anyone – when I have been obviously trying my best.
He says I am selfish and have to do everything on my time and that I am too analytical and don’t pay enough attention to him when I am on the computer for a few hours doing work.
I don’t know what to do, I care about him, and he treats me well outside of this, but the anguish: can it be worth it
What are Kelly Clarkson’s hobbies? Also, where does she live?
19
Apr
My 11 year old daughter is doing a report for her music class.
14 year old – how to love truly again and live?
19
Apr
Ok well i’m a 14 yr old girl. This is what u should know about my past:
I’ve always loved people and am blessed to have felt such deep connections with people. My relationships and love with people (anyone) was a great part of my happiness and is part of what I lived for, as well as fun of life of course. I liked materialistic things too, and enjoyed free time hobbies like reading etc. if i ever felt empty in my life, it would be because i was missing someone and loved them truly.
I’ve always been quite skinny because I didn’t feel like food was a big deal – if it was something i liked i would enjoy it but i’d never feel “tempted” or compulsed to eat something i didnt like. i often found eating boring food a chore – i didnt depend on it, unlike soo many ppl in the world now.
Well last year when i was 13 i began to realise things werent “perfect” anymore. people were dying, opinions changing loved ones growing up. and that soon i’d have to work and go to uni
(look at my previous questions)
Because of that i stopped finding so much happiness in life and people, so i became very inward looking and self obsessed (e.g i became obsessive compulsive with my hair and body). because i cut away all the important things that i lived for like people and fun i had more “space” to depend and eat more food without thinking it achore. as a result i’ve become dependent on food and i cant tolerate hunger, emotionally compulsed, etc…
so now i’ve realised that how i’ve been living the past year with food and myself was just a shield, and that i’ve been so empty all along.
i have a desire to love others again and find deep happiness in relationships as well as finally accepting changes,but for some reason i still feel empty and i don’t feel as “into love and people” like i used to. i feel very empty and still feel a bit drawn to food, and myself.
how do i love truly again and bring back the deep happiness and security i have always found in relationships and loving people??
(by the way when i say love and relationships – imean any type, including crushes, best friends,family, cousins, etc…)
how can i live life to the fullest?
15
Apr
i keep hearing stuff about like living my life to the fullest and making it the best it can be. but im in high school and have fallen into the boring routine of school and waiting for the weekends while not enjoying the school week at all. i just need to start living i feel like im waiting for something but i really dont know what. i guess college maybe but i want to start living now. if you know what i mean sorry this may seem confusing. but one thing i always enjoy is running so its not like i need a hobby
Who do we live our lives for?
08
Apr
In the past 7 months I have lost 2 important men in my life. Yes two boyfriends. One I broke up with because of cheating accusations, and the other because of more complicated reasons. The first gentleman, who I will refer to as Ja Rule, him and I moved very fast into our romance. He found me on Myspace and contacted me, almost to the point where it was as though he was hounding me. Needless to say, we met, fell in love, etc…. Despite the fact that he may have cheated on me, (facts are quite jumbled and time really DOES heal all wounds) we still get a long swimmingly! He makes me laugh, we have wonderful educated conversations and we have many hobbies that we share. That being said, since our break up, he has slowly started to make contact with me, and we have hung out twice in the last week, both times being just as wonderful as when we dated. We both admitted that we are still in love with eachother and care about eachother. All of this has put me into a tail spin. Since July of 08, my main goal was to get over him and move on, with my friends and family backing me up. In all fairness my two best friends never liked him, I am not sure why. Its only a few people who can appreciate his personality, me being one of them.
After our outings this past week, I have done a lot of soul searching. Part of me is scared to let him in, thinking I will let myself get sucked in, but another part of me knows I will always have a doubt regarding the infidelity that has never been fully explained, and now due to the lapse of time, cannot be explained, but because of that doubt I carry, it keeps my eyes open, and he will never be able to hurt me like that again. But I have decided to keep him as a friend. Which brings me to my other important friend, who I will call J. I have known him since I was 16, been friends with him since I was about 18, been in love with him the whole time. He has been in and out of my life, we have tried to get it together about 3 times, and they never have worked. But for some reason, his personality also appeals to me, and we have a very strong and passionate sexual connection, more so than Mr. Ja Rule. I am attracted to both men, but at this point in my life I couldn’t give anything more than friendship, and being an activity partner.
All that being said, I am at a point in my life where I am in transition. I have about 4 close girl friends who I hold near and dear to my heart. They have always been there for me. I live with one of them and her boyfriend. And just to mention, all of them have steady beaus, actually one has a baby and one is engaged. I am the lone ranger of the group.
After beating the subject of these two men with my group of friends like a dead horse, it has come to my conclusion that neither of these gentleman would suit me, in THEIR eyes. They also do not understand the lonliness and exclusions being the only single girl in the group that I go through. 2 of my friends are acutally dating brothers, which makes it very hard to have group functions, bonds of brothers are very strong and they are quick to judge. Another point, in MY opinion, NONE of my friends men are good enough for them, or rather, if I was in their position, their men wouldn’t be good enough for me. I could make lists a mile long about why these men are lousy and how they can do so much better. But I don’t.
Now I am in a horrible position where I may want to start up friendships (or more depending) with these men, who mean so much to me. I am a nervous wreck, worrying of the judgements I will have to endure.
But I have come to a realization……
WHO DO WE LIVE OUR LIVES FOR? Others judgments? Ourselves? or rather….
WHO SHOULD WE LIVE OUR LIVES FOR?
My father told me that I had lived the majority of my life trying to please someone…friends, family, significant others etc….and now it is time for me.
As I sat on my couch with my two roomates last night after being with Ja Rule, I questioned if he would fit in with this scenario…and then it hit me…this scenario is not permanent.
If you know anything about the FL economy, it is in the toilet and people are selling their homes for dirt. I plan on owning my own home by the end of the year. Then it will not be myself and my two roomates, it will be myself and whomever I decide to allow over. I understand their concerns, these men have hurt me in the past. But that is because I let them in to a part of my heart and the only way out would be painful.
But when it all boils down to it, if spending time with these men brings a smile to my face and makes my heart sing, shouldn’t it be up to me to judge them? And what does it say about my friend’s character if they hold on to old grudges despite my apparent happiness. And I am supposed to turn a blind eye to their significant other’s short comings?
I understand that befriending an ex is very difficult, especially because I deeply care about both of these men. But I do not have any man that I am
Thoughts on a 42 yo male who buys parents’ home with older sister and prefers that he and his wife live there?
06
Apr
This is his solution of being able to save $, having more disposable income to buy more toys that contribute to hobbies that doesn’t really include his 35 yo wife of three years. The wife prefers that they move out on their own and live apart from the sister, but the husband insists on this way of living. Initially into the marriage, he said it was temporary, but wife is led to believe that the arrangement is indefinite. She doesn’t think this is healthy and feels that husband doesn’t have his priorities right and that any husband in his right mind (esp of this age) should want to live apart from in-laws. The husband makes more than enough $ to buy a place or at least, live on their own, but continues to splurge on needless things that don’t support their marital union and is an extension of the single life he doesn’t appear to be able to give up. Also, he insists on remaining friends with old female co-workers and other females (best friend’s wife) whom his wife isn’t friends with.
Oh, and the husband’s older sister tags along on the couple’s dates because the husband always invites her!
This question was being asked on behalf of a co-worker who wanted to get others’ input on a situation. And the sister is the husband’s sibling, not the wife’s!
What are some fun things, hobbies or activies I can do as I live very frugal?
03
Apr
I will be moving out on my own in 2 weeks. I have budgeted enough for food, bills, etc etc. But not much for entertainment. I have no problem living like a hobbit. I don’t need tv so I won’t be having that, but I wll just have internet. What are some fun, low budget, cheap, interesting things I can do on my spare time to keep me busy, entertained, and useful,etc.? I’d especially love to hear from people that are in a similiar situation as myself. I kind of like the idea of living like a hobbit/pilgrim. Thanks! btw I’m a 24 year old female.
Advice needed on how to live a life that is too much pain to live?
03
Apr
I am 24 yr old man who is struggling to live life at the moment. I have faced numerous obstacles and challenges in my life but none greater than severe depression and lust problem.
Why couldn’t I resist or overcome them just like I did against drugs, alcohol, tobacco, sex? That is beyond me to answer. All I know is I tried my best and worked hard to become a good person and the best person I can be. But still, I couldn’t overcome severe depression and lust problem.
I have been living with those 2 problems for the past 8 years on daily basis. And to put it bluntly, I am just sick and tired of living with them. I am tired of being bothered by them, my life being robbed of happiness and enjoyment no matter how hard I try.
I tried nightly praying, writing daily journals, posting on support board, asking for advice, reading self-help book, getting new hobbies.
What more can I possibly try? Why does it have to be me who endures this?