My husband and I have been together for 4 years, married for just over a year. Recently I quit my job to pursue my passion and have now replaced my income doing so. He was okay with me quitting but then became ugly and mean about it. Very passive/aggressive. Honestly he’s been like that on and off our entire relationship. It was one-sided from the get go- I did what he wanted, when he wanted, and once my hobby became my job, that changed and he was NOT okay with it. He has never wanted to be part of my life; until I told him I was leaving him because I can’t live my life doing everything by myself. I didn’t get married to do that. I told him I didn’t feel like he cares about my desires. We have separate checking accounts; and pay bills separately. Now that I’ve threatened to leave he’s decided he wants to be involved. He now wants a wife; not roomie. He waited until I didn’t care anymore to change and I don’t feel the same way about him. At 1 time I wanted him. Now I’d rather work
I do not remember why I fell in love with him or why I married him. I know he loves me and wants me to feel the same way I did six months ago, but I do not. He is my friend, yes. How do you even go about remember why you fell in love with someone?
Posts Tagged ‘marriage’
How do you know when and if it’s time to let go of the marriage? And what is the best way to do so?
isn’t marriage the ultimate way of overcoming oneself?
in order to get married you have to overcome a lot of fears and drag yourself into doing things you never would do. marriage makes you lose privacy, independence, time for yourself and hobbies. Is it all worth it just not to be lonely? especially given the fact that 99% of couples are not meant to be together at all.
sure its worth it when you have found the love of your life, but most couples are just acting happiness!!
Who wants to have a internet marriage?
with me?
the ghost bert guy asked about internet mariages and now i want one. i need a internet fiance. any takers?
internet marriage app:
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What’s the best way to find a quality women (30-49 yo.)for a meaningful relation and possible marriage?
I have lived in Washington state all of my life. I love music the arts and children. My hobby is boating, tenor sax and carpentry. I love to dine in or out and enjoy some cooking. I’m youthful, enjoy laughter, sports and am playful. I have a warm romantic heart and love the diversity of people and places on the earth. I am a good communicater and enjoy conversation. Honesty, recpect and trust are key to any good relationship