My husband and I have been together for 4 years, married for just over a year. Recently I quit my job to pursue my passion and have now replaced my income doing so. He was okay with me quitting but then became ugly and mean about it. Very passive/aggressive. Honestly he’s been like that on and off our entire relationship. It was one-sided from the get go- I did what he wanted, when he wanted, and once my hobby became my job, that changed and he was NOT okay with it. He has never wanted to be part of my life; until I told him I was leaving him because I can’t live my life doing everything by myself. I didn’t get married to do that. I told him I didn’t feel like he cares about my desires. We have separate checking accounts; and pay bills separately. Now that I’ve threatened to leave he’s decided he wants to be involved. He now wants a wife; not roomie. He waited until I didn’t care anymore to change and I don’t feel the same way about him. At 1 time I wanted him. Now I’d rather work
I do not remember why I fell in love with him or why I married him. I know he loves me and wants me to feel the same way I did six months ago, but I do not. He is my friend, yes. How do you even go about remember why you fell in love with someone?
Posts Tagged ‘time’
How do you know when and if it’s time to let go of the marriage? And what is the best way to do so?
do any stores carry slot car sets? i want to buy one for my dads b-day & didnt think of it in time for online?
i would like a nice set . toys r us target? do they still have hobby stores with model trains and stuff. i live in fort worth, tx
As a mom, how do you best stucture your day and/or week to get housework done and still have time for hobbies?
My youngest is in all day school this year and I’m thinking of working part time, but as it is I cannot stay on top of all the housework and other “mothering” chores that I need to do. Besides I have hobbies I enjoy (scrapbooking and sewing) that I’d rather not give up. As it is, I watch no television because I do not have time to! Do any of you have a specific daily routine that you follow so that you don’t waste time? I’d love to hear what works for you!
why do some colleges/ work set ups imply you won’t have free time and nurture that mentality. anyone know?
when the implication of a college environment or work set up is you won’t have free time (aka hobby time) what is the central idea. why do they try to make it that way and what is the gain from doing so?
My sister says my hobby of writing is a total waste of time. What do you think?
Here’s a sample: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/38038/six_office_break_room_rules_to_live.html
I do not think I’m the best writer in the world, but I do not feel I’m the worse writer that ever dared to use a keyboard.
How have you been passing the time until the new season begins?
Taken up any new hobbies? Watching tennis? Baseball?
Women who’s husbands are gone for long periods of time?
TO what lengths have you gone to keep from cheating on him during his absence? I am curious. It is rough to be away from your mate and do you get tempted but find a way to keep from doing it? Personally I get super busy with hobbies and such. My friends are a source of help to keep my mind off him being gone. How about you?
When was the last time you bribed a police dog to not give away the place where you buried your victim’s body?
I am not one to give treats to the police force, but I find that if I want a cadaver dog to be on my side, I will start to give away my peanut butter jar int he hopes that he will not squeal about my weekend hobbies.
I was just wondering if you employ the same type of techniques when you want to get K-9 members of the police on your side?
What are some good hobbies to do in your spare time?
I don’t have a lot of money so it can’t be too expensive.
Why would some try something again when they had a bad experience with it the first time?
Lets say you’ve had a bad experience with most hobbies and activities you’ve tried. Why would you voluntarily try it again when you didn’t like it the first time. Is it possible, if so then how? It seems like it would human nature to avoid such things as long as practically possible.
I know that there could be outside pressures to do something, but is it possible for a person to bring it upon him or herself to try something that is negative again?