I often wonder, I turn up from school at three, then get to homework that lasts till five, then study for my exams. And every night I sleep with the thought “I didn’t do anything today”. obviously, people might say ‘go to play’ or ’spend time in hobbies’….But this doesn’t really work for me. I mean, playing doesn’t really make you do something creative- it’s just for fun, and exercise. Indirectly, How can I make life more exciting? As if I’d wake up, I would feel there’s so much to do! All suggestions welcome?
What’s the best way to live life happily?
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March 13, 2010 at 12:48 pm
Peace..
Find out who you are and be content with it. ’cause when you’re content/happy with yourself, you’ll see it – a reflection -(happiness/contentment) around you and this by the Law of attraction will attract more happiness to your life.
Ajay Parmar
March 13, 2010 at 1:33 pm
You are unhappy till when you think i have to do something. Just float with flow. I mean what come in life enjoy it, don’t think it is good or bad or it is useful or not.
More expectations more unhappy life. No expectation and full happy life.
Live all things on God and he will guide you to your real work.
James L
March 13, 2010 at 2:24 pm
Create something that has meaning in your life. It can take hard work but once the ball is rolling your zest for life will too. Your name, car freak, why not restore or hot up a car? If age and money limit, you can always go to workshops and build your practical knowledge. Having a project will create meaning, and give much gratification in completion.
natalieg
March 13, 2010 at 3:18 pm
I am a student as well, and I understand how you are feeling now. the best way is to just tell yourself something that you are most interested in, and that will allow you to get interesting stuff out of it and you will have fun.
lillianroh
March 13, 2010 at 3:50 pm
Only you can truly determine what makes you happy and then only you can actually Do What Makes You Happy.
Treat others the way you would have them treat you might help.
DWalker42
March 13, 2010 at 4:35 pm
You sound like a boring person to not enjoy having fun. Don’t you know having fun makes you laugh and laughter is the key to happiness?
If having fun and laughing isn’t your bag then seeking happiness would have to come in other forms.
I suggest you try drugs. Meth is my preferred drug of use.
freetobefreddy
March 13, 2010 at 4:43 pm
Go on a quest to discover the meaning in life. Leave no stone unturned. If the answers you receive don’t make sense go on to the next possible venue. If you are a very honest person you will find the answer in the end.
arkanesteelblade
March 13, 2010 at 4:48 pm
Unfortunately that’s life, work, work,work..but there is hope other than that! Regardless how small it is, take time for yourself. It appears you have a busy schedule, I’ve been there, done that..etc. I did the full time college, two jobs thing for a decent amount of time and was stressed everyday thinking similar thoughts. Find what makes you happy and do it, regardless it’s just for fun. That moment of fun, does wonders to the mind, it releases all you anxieties and worries. At this point in time, what is exciting to you?, because what’s exciting to me may not be the same, so it’s not really getting suggestion from others but from yourself, by asking what is exciting to me? If possible, do it! I like reading, karate, hiking
which all can be done it about 30 minutes depending how much time you have find something relative to your time frame.
Good Luck
lavengro59
March 13, 2010 at 5:19 pm
Acquire a two door 57 Chevy Belair convertible. Rebuild it. Paint it your favorite color. Wax and polish it regularally. Talk to it and tell it all the wonderful places you will go. Carress the tail fins with your soft polishing rag and say “I love you. I bet that feels good. Do you like that? You know what I’m going to do for you tomorrow? I’m going to get you about a gallon of hi-test and we’re going out to a deserted airstrip where you can really unwind. Does that make your engine purr? Yes baby, yes!” And never mind what some people will tell you is an abnormal obsession with communicating with inanimate objects. They don’t know.
Tennisguy
March 13, 2010 at 5:27 pm
i think your question should be “how should i live my life purposefully?” but either way, you can’t refer to people on how to live your life- it just doesn’t work. everyone is different no matter the similaraties in tact, which means everyone’s answer will be different, which means none of them could fit what you’re looking for. you’ve got to find what you’re looking for. yea, i think the samething a lot too. how am i suppose to live life if all i do is study, do homework, go to school, and play tennis? well i hate to say it….but honestly, as a non adult with no efficient amounts of money, all you can do is study and prepare for a future you can make you’re own. for now you can set a foundation for who you will live as and how you’ll live.
insenergy
March 13, 2010 at 5:46 pm
Try to be more confident and find YOU ARE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF! Loving and accepting ourselves is THE MOST CRITICAL FACTOR in experiencing joy,happiness, and success in life. When you really love yourself and you really love other people, you find that life is really an incredible journey where things flow, and no matter what happens you always find a way to enjoy yourself and you feel fulfilled. You MUST love yourself completely.
This determines your STANDARDS for what you are willing to accept or settle for. It determines how well you treat your body and your health, how much money you feel you deserve to earn or feel you can make, your belief in whether you can achieve your goals, how much others RESPECT you and how they treat you, and even whether people like you and want to be around you. People love being around confident people. You see, confident people do not feel the need to judge you or tear you down in order to elevate their own self-worth. They radiate a positive energy. You feel safe around them. You need to consistently and confidently take action to move towards your goals, and towards your ultimate destiny. People who lack in confidence often get ‘stuck’. So you see, your entire DESTINY is shaped by your degree of confidence. True self-confidence comes from an absolute sense of certainty deep within, that you are able to handle anything life throws your way. Truly confident people exude calm, control, power, certainty. They care about people, and they make people feel good when they are around them.They never brag – after all, actions speak louder than words. People who brag are just masking their insecurities. People have varying degrees of confidence depending on what activity they are performing. For example, someone might be totally confident in performing a piano concert, or driving a car, but feel totally inadequate at a new job they’ve started, or at flirting with members of the opposite sex. People with Total Self-Confidence, though, have complete belief in themselves. They never ask themselves “Can I really do this? What if this doesn’t work out? Am I good enough to pull it off?” They know that if they really want something, and they are committed to getting it, it will happen. They know that it’s just a question of time until they’ve mastered the skills and knowledge to make whatever they want a reality.